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15 signs you are a tool

Hi guys, I have been very busy for the past month or so, I bought my first house so needless to say time has been tight, but I’m back at it! Here we go!

1. You can’t maintain or hold eye contact for longer than a second or two.  Don’t use fleeting glances.  Summon up some courage and look women directly in the eyes when you speak with them.  You’ll find yourself making better connections with people when you do this.

2. You carry yourself with a submissive or awkward posture making you look like a huge tool.  Don’t forget – always walk with your shoulders back, chest up, and eyes forward.

3. You give away all your power.  What does this mean?  This means that you avoid taking control of situations and doing what you want.  It means not always being agreeable if you don’t approve or want to do something.  It means constantly seeking approval and doing what you hope she thinks is acceptable.

4.  A BIG sign you are a tool is you always nervously fidget with something, whether it be your hands, a marker, a pencil whatever.  Practice the discipline of simply holding your arms at your sides or whatever place you find comfortable.

5. You always try to follow the crowd and do what everyone else is doing because you’re afraid people may think ill of you.  If you want to drive a volvo, do it! If you want to get a tattoo, do it! Don’t worry about other people think.

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Ever meet a woman, who at first you think is just another pretty face, but the more you get to know her and the more time you spend with her the more that initial attraction quickly grew into an intense affection as you became friends?

Then as you find yourself spending even more time with her, you started to become more and more insecure? Sound familiar?

We’ve all been there. You are not alone.

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Awesome video of some quite amazing party tricks you can use with your friends!  Being able to entertain at a party will help you stand out from the crowd and is a great way to break the ice.

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Understanding A Womans Body Language

The majority of all communication is not through spoken word.  It’s from body language.  Understanding a woman’s body language will quickly let you know whether or not she’s interested in you.

It shouldn’t take you more than five minutes to figure out whether or not you’re interested in a woman. You have to realize that you are in the same attraction process and time frame as women, when it comes to figuring out if attraction is there or not. Women follow the same attraction factors as we do.

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Funny Icebreakers

It’s been said time and time again you can open or ice break the with practically anything. You can just say “Hi” or something random.  The first thing you say isn’t always heard, so it’s not too critical. What matters most is your attitude, energy, body language and delivery.  It has to be said in a fun, non-serious, upbeat way.

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How To Have a Great Conversation

Ever been in a conversation with a woman that’s going nowhere?  When you can almost feel the heavy silent awkwardness in the air?

This is a lot more common than you may think when two people don’t know each other well and lack conversation skill. Luckily, there are ways to get a great conversation going again.
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Flirting With Humor

When you’re planning to flirt with women, it makes it a heck of a lot easier if you’re in a state where you feel good and like you’re having a fun time. Go workout or do something to relieve stress if need be.  Don’t even bother if you’re strung out or not currently happy.

Confidence and plain ole being in a good mood is a big piece when it comes to effective flirting.

Humor is the bedrock of flirting. Without injected humor your flirting attempts may come out awkward.  It’s good to learn a few funny one liners that you can adapt to many situations.

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Self-Confidence attracts women. Self-confidence is always an attractive quality to the opposite sex (or same sex if you swing that way). Women feel more comfortable around self-assured men. On an instinctual level, they want a mate who is strong and will be able to defend and take care of her. You project this ability with having high self-confidence.

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If you’re not immediately comfortable talking with new people or talking to new women you’ve just met, you may find it hard to make lasting connections with them. You also might find it harder to make friends in general.

A mistake people make is that they tend to put a lot pressure on themselves when trying to make a good impression on someone they don’t know.  This makes it more difficult to have a memorable conversation and connect with someone due to all your nerves being jacked up.

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It can be intimidating trying to come up with the best way to present yourself to the world of online dating, as you naturally want to present yourself in the best light.  It can be even more challenging for those who don’t enjoy writing – even more so writing about a profile about themselves. If you follow these simple profile tips, you will wind up with a decent online dating profile.

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