3 Tips To Improve Your Approach

Don’t Rehearse What You’re Going to Say
If you happen to get a woman’s digits, don’t over analyze and mull over what exactly you’re going to say.  This will make you extra nervous. If you’re trying to follow a certain script, chances are that it won’t pan out the way you intended, so don’t waste your time.

Calling her soon after (within 2 days) is a sign of confidence and shows her you have some cajones. It’s scary, I know.  The good news is she will be just as anxious during the call. If you sound TOO smooth it sounds like you’re not overly interested and she doesn’t really affect you.

Get a Wing Man
If you approach a woman by yourself and she is in a group it can stack the odds against you.  You may run out of things to say or find yourself trying way too hard. Having a “wing man” (friend) can help disperse any potential tension and help you talk about other things.

Sadly, it has to be said that your wing must be someone who is positive and outgoing.

Smile
People get so anxious when they first start approaching women that they forget to smile.  It’s a simple gesture that communicates a lot about you. Don’t forget to smile! Show you’re fun, confident, and happy to see her. It’s even more import to smile if you open with making fun of her.

-Gary

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