Here are some common things women have told me they dread and can’t stand when guys say them, enjoy.
1. On The First Bunch Of Dates: “We this..” “We that…” “We should..”
When you start saying things like “Oh, we should go to that sushi place….” or “I’ll take you out on my boat next time” or “We’ll definitely do that!” on the first or second date it reveals that you are very into her, she has you by the cajones and the fun is over. Don’t let her know she has won you over so easily. You don’t want to be that jackass who says he would love to put a ring on her finger after the first date.
2. “How many guys have you had sex with?”
If you want to start a budding relationship off with oodles of tension, this is how you do it. I mean, honestly do you really want to know? You’re with her and that’s all that matters. It shows a big lack of confidence by having to ask this question in the early stages.
3. “I left you a message but you didn’t call me..whats up with that?”
Never let a woman know in the early stages of dating that her not calling you back bothers you. If you do, it shows again, you are way too into her too early and the game is over. Be busy, don’t give a crap if she doesn’t call you back, don’t give it any thought and most important don’t speak about it. The rules of course change when it comes to longer lasting relationships.
4. “So….Do you like me?”
If you want crank her attraction dial down into the negatives this is the question to ask. Of course she likes you, she’s with you isn’t she?
5. “What do you want to do?”
Be a leader, have a plan, and take charge. It’s very important in the early stages that you show that you in fact know how to be a man.
6. “Is it ok if I kiss you?”
No talking – just do it.
-Gary
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Thanks for posting about this, I would like to read more about this topic.
#3- not so much that it sounds like we have you whipped, but more like the guy is too needy. Girls hate clingy as much as guys do. Plus it comes across as a control issue, as in “what were you doing that you didn’t have time for me?” It’s a red flag.
I have to disagree with #1 and #6. Planning things for the future shows that the person does in fact like us! Playing the guessing game with men is horrible. #6 can be really sweet when done right. The shy nice guy routine is sexy too!