Why You Should Avoid Being A “Nice Guy”

 

What they say is true, nice guys always finish last.  The cocky, humorous, jackass will of course never have a problem with picking up women.  Why is this true?

Here are three ways being a “nice guy” will kill your chances of attracting women.

1. You appear boring. Nice guys are usually way too quiet, spineless, and flat out wimps.  They come across as weak and lacking confidence – this is doom when trying to attract women.  You may be the shoulder to cry on, but you will never get ass if you don’t change your ways.

2. You’re always available. Nice guys will do whatever it takes when you need it to make you happy at any whim.  Women are not attracted to things that are very available. Why do women love jewelry? Because it’s hard to acquire.  Think of yourself the same way.  Women are attracted to men who are not always readily available.

3. You’re awkward. Nice guys tend to not be described as “smooth talkers.”  They tend to be way too socially awkward for women to even be remotely interested in them.  They are very self-conscious, avoid risk taking, and play it way too safe for women to find attractive.

Stop being so nice, stop seeking female approval, stop being the shoulder to cry on.

-Gary

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  1. Amanda
    887 days ago

    I’m working on a blog post right now about this one. There are about 10 other reasons why nice guys are actually complete jerks.
    .-= Amanda´s last blog ..It might be a little quiet around here for a few days =-.


  2. James
    676 days ago

    I was once told by a friend that introduced me to a really nice girl that she thought I was a nice quiet guy and that really boosted my confidence.


  3. Zooey D.
    105 days ago

    I am married to an amazing man, and he is an all around “nice guy”. Upon meeting him, he fit the script above to a T…until I was intrigued and didn’t see that exterior. I was blessed to get to know the true him. No matter how many misconceptions girls had before about him (and tried to warn me about): “nerdy”, “awkward”, or “goofy”, they often “jokingly” tell me they wished they would’ve snatched them when they had the chance (this is where I then add a scowl and/or an awkward laugh and an eyeroll when they leave). He is an amazing guy, is up to indie model status, and the sex is great. Ladies: don’t judge a book by it’s cover. Gents: Don’t pay attention to this crap. Be firm in who you are of course…even if it’s the “nice guy”. God bless <3.