Women love texting and in most cases, do it a hell of a lot more than guys.  It’s another great tool you can use to take your time formulate a flirty text conversation.  Texting should always be fun, to the point, and never serious.  These messages assume that you obviously already have a phone number.

Here are two easy ways to start a flirty text conversation.

In *most* cases she will reply back with some flirtatious banter.  If she doesn’t “get” that the message is humorous and fun, and is rather offended by it, she’s probably not a girl you want to hang out with anyway. This type of flirting is actually a really good filtering tool that you can use to quickly weed through girls who are worth your time and energy as they are intelligent and socially aware enough to understand teasing and playing.

Example #1

• You: “Hey I saw a show and it reminded me of you.”  - If she’s fun and interested in you than you should get a response similar to this:
• Her: “Oh Yeah?”
• You: “Yeah, there was this girl with a massive handbag so big you could easily stuff a midget in it, reminded me of the one you have”

Example #2

• You: “Hey, I’m willing to take you out again, but only if you promise not to spill your water all over the table this time…can you handle that??”
• Her: “Ha, ha. I think I can try”
• You: “I know no one’s perfect, but you’re gonna have to try to eat spill free this time or else you owe me” - This is a fun way to challenge and tease her – women love this stuff
• Her: “Ha, ha. what would I owe you?” – When she starts asking questions its an indicator of interest.  You’re not obligated to immediately answer, it’s good to leave her hanging for a bit to stir the curiosity pot.
• You: “Well, you’re going to have to wait to find out 6:30 Wed. sound good?” Boom, you’ve asked her out in a fun way and dialed up the attraction dial.

-Gary

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Why is online dating so popular?  The answer is clear, its safe and provides an easy way to find out a lot about a person before meeting them and investing your time.  This way you can easily filter through hundreds of women until you find one you’re interested in.

The web has made it very simple to find single women.  No more approaching, striking up conversation, wasting time & emotion, only to find out they have a boyfriend or husband.  Online dating sites have allowed us to connect to just the people we think are, bottom line, hot. If you feel self-concious and have a lot of anxiety with approaching you can use the shield of your monitor to dispel that fear.

It’s also not just about meeting and dating women.  You may also find a lot of the women you meet on dating sites may end up just becoming your friends if the attraction isn’t there.  It’s also a great way to sharpen your game without making an ass out of yourself because time is on your side.  You can take your time to formulate your response in a funny and teasing way.   Doing this on a regular basis on the internet will make it a hell of a lot easier transition to start making this part of your normal response to women.  Teasing creates attraction if done the right way.

So if you’re scared to start approaching women immediatley in public, the web is a good baby step you can take today to hone your game.

Online Dating Profile Tips

1. Cut to the chase. Just list what you want to have, forget the nice to have’s for what you’re looking for.   You don’t want to be too picky.

2. Write with humor. Avoid using lame jokes and stuff that cleary is not funny.  Ask someone else to verify if it’s funny or not.

3. No shirtless pictures.

4. Don’t brag about all your AMAZING accomplishments.

5. Don’t pick a ridiculously sexual name like MikeyBigDong
-Gary

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Here is a three step formula for calling a woman to ask her out that helps take the complexity and pressure off of making that first call.

No texting, no emailing, be a man and call.

1. Relax

Chances are that she is going to be as nervous as you are when you call. To calm your nerves think of it like you are calling an old friend or a family member, it’s not a big deal. Don’t forget: she gave you her number in the first place, so she is expecting you to call. Realize that Relax and keep in mind you both are just looking to have fun and meet someone new.

2. Sound Excited

You don’t want to call for the first time and sound bored or tired. Only make the first call when you are feeling energetic and are in a good mood.

Dont say: “Hey…it’s bob…remember me? do you uhhh want to go out sometime?”

Say: “Hey what’s up! It’s bob! what are you up to tomorrow afternoon? <blah blah blah not too much> Cool..would you be interested in joining me for a cup of coffee at Barnes & Noble downtown tomorrow? great see you then” Sound happy

IF response = “yes” {

proceed as described above}

IF response = “maybe” (which means no but she does not want to hurt your feelings) OR “no”, “I’m busy’, etc, etc {

don’t let her know in your voice or by what you say in anyway shape or form that you were phased by her rejection. If you act like her rejection doesn’t bother you in the slightest (which it shouldn’t anyway as the saying goes..”plenty of fish in the sea”) it may peak her interest. The confident man can deal with rejection and say “next!” The fact is not every woman is going to be attracted to you no matter how good looking, rich, smooth talking, funny, or smart you are.

Say the following: “Ok, you’re going to miss out on a good time! they have such great coffee, can’t wait to grab some tomorrow…anyway, I gotta take the dogs out, take it easy!” }

3. 3 – 5 minute phone call MAX

Keep it short and sweet. Make the appointment and get off the phone. You will have plenty talk about in person and you don’t want to exhaust everything you have to say before you meet face to face.

-Gary

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You may be thinking, “you know… we have so much fun together and she would be perfect for me. We have the same friends, I know her parents, and I know that ‘The Notebook’ turns on the water works.”

If you unveil your emotions or “true feelings” to your friend it will most likely result in ruining the friendship and her avoiding you for a while. Hopefully she will forget shortly and your now strained friendship can resume.

If the foundation of the relationship is not based in a sexual way then the emotional unveiling will not work. The vibe of your friendship will have forever changed, even if she assures you after rejecting you that it won’t.

It may sound like I am being negative, but I am only trying to prevent you from damaging a potential life long friendship. From past experience and talking to other women who have gone through this – it’s a bad idea.

What you need to do:

1. Don’t talk about your emotions to anyone on this subject, don’t give it life..keep that crap inside.

2. Go to a website like http://www.plentyoffish.com/ and check out 20 hot single girls to remind you that there are in fact other single women who are looking and available.

3. Be glad you have a great friend and leave it at that

-Gary

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