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Self-Confidence attracts women. Self-confidence is always an attractive quality to the opposite sex (or same sex if you swing that way). Women feel more comfortable around self-assured men. On an instinctual level, they want a mate who is strong and will be able to defend and take care of her. You project this ability with having high self-confidence.

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What they say is true, nice guys always finish last.  The cocky, humorous, jackass will of course never have a problem with picking up women.  Why is this true?

Here are three ways being a “nice guy” will kill your chances of attracting women.

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Dating and meeting women for shy men can be quite a harrowing experience.  You may feel like you will never find a date while your friends whip through girlfriend after girlfriend.

Shy guys tend to enjoy explaining to everyone how amazingly nice they really are and how well they would care for a girl if they had one.  In the game of dating, overly nice guys usually finish dead last.

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The better you look, the more confident you will feel. This will help you adopt a more positive attitude about each day if you feel good about what you’re stepping into in the morning. Here are five easy to implement tips on how to improve your style.

1. Heed the advice of the people who really know style. Don’t let your style be influenced by your mom, dad, girl your dating, or wife unless they really know what they’re talking about.  Read the advice of the experts on web sites such as askmen.com, GQ,  mens fashion on about.com then pick and choose what you like so you own it.  The cool thing about doing this is that no matter what you choose, you can’t go wrong (in most cases see #2).

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She’s hot and before you know it you’re stuffing your hands into your pockets and just making weird movements while talking to a woman. You need to eliminate this and all forms of submissive body language to make yourself appear more confident and attractive.

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Working out VS. Not working out

Which do you like better, the before or after shot? A rhetorical question, I know. It is common knowledge that men are visual creatures and women are emotional creatures, however women still want you to look good.  We men instantaneously make snap  judgments about which women we think are hot and want to shag. Guess what – women do the same thing, Continue Workout To Attract Women...

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1.    Surround yourself with positive and optimistic people.  You become more like the  people you hang around with. The rich hang out with the rich.  The punks hang out with the punks.  Hang out with the type of person you want to become.  Cut out negative people from life as if they were an infected limb, because that’s what they are.

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1.    Know that it is ok to fail. A key to maintaining high self worth is to acknowledge that failure is part of life. If you’re not failing, you’re not growing. Take risks and learn from them if you fail. Failure is only acknowledged when you have stopped trying.

2.    Learn a new skill. You’ll increase what you know, what you can talk about, and you will become a more interesting person.  It will allow you to better enjoy all life has to offer and in turn will make you view each day as something new and exciting.  Take a yoga/martial arts/painting/cooking/language/computer/music class, etc. Continue Confidence Boosters #2...

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1. Know that you are immensely valuable.  Remind yourself everyday of what you have accomplished at work, social settings, finances, etc.

2. Know that your time is valuable.  You have the right to be annoyed when people waste it by not being on time, keeping you waiting, bailing on you, etc.

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