Most people forget that there are places other than bars and clubs to meet women. Chances are, you will find a higher quality woman at one of the places described below than the typical bar scene anyway.  Check these places out for some great locations to easily meet and start conversations with women.

1. Ballroom Dance Lessons / Class

Guys hate it, women love it, which is why YOU should be there! Less guys, more women = less competition. I’m talking a 3:1 ratio here, at worst.  Another plus, you will get to dance with body contact with a lot of different hot women, which is always fun.  Even if you find you don’t meet anyone you like, you will have a new skill to add to your arsenal that most guys don’t have. If you can teach a woman what you’ve learned in dance class — they will be impressed! It’s a great way to immediatley start touching as well.

Icebreaker: “I know we need to dance close, but please don’t get too excited now…”

2. Home Depot / Lowes / Craft stores

If you’re looking for a woman who is self-reliant and indepdendent look no further than your local DYI store.

Icebreaker: “Hey check out this caulking gun..rather than that one, it works a lot better”

3. Men and Women’s Shoe Store

Again, another spot where typically there will be more women than men.  It’s critical that is BOTH a men AND woman’s shoe store or you may look kinda gay.

Icebreaker: “Hey, you look like you may know a little bit about fashion..which pair do you like better, these or these?”

4. Book Stores

Preferably one with a cafe inside -  Prove you’re more than just another pretty face, and ask a woman who is in your favorite sections if she’s read one of your favorite reads.

Icebreaker: “Hey, looking for a good <subject name> book? check this out…it’s kick ass. I’m going to grab a coffee..would you like to join me?”

5. Yoga Class

Increase your flexibility, relax, and watch girls in tight pants contort their bodies in enjoyable ways. Once the women in the class realize you’re straight and are masculine and confident enough to step foot into that type of class the game is already half over.

Icebreaker: <say to woman you are interested in> “Hey, No staring at my ass…I’ll be watching you!” with a wink.

-Gary

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The first date should always be lively, fun, casual, low cost, and offer a quick escape if need be. Avoid dates that require long time investments. If you find things aren’t working out and you’re not digging the woman you’re with, you can easily get out of the date within less than 20 minutes after you’ve had your coffee, ice cream, etc.

Forget the classic “dinner and a movie” date for a first date as it’s boring, expensive, and does not offer an easy out. If you’re single, there is a good chance you will have multiple first dates with different people. This can start to chew into your wallet if your constantly going the dinner or dinner and a movie route. Keep it simple, and stick to one of the four locations below. Meet each other at each location so that if things happen to go south, you don’t have to bear an awkward ride to your cars together.

All of these locations are in public so the woman feels more comfortable. Never invite a woman you have no rapport with to your home for a first date as this may appear rapistesque.

1. Coffee Shop – Ideally the one that isn’t a a big chain and has some local flair. The caffeine will give you both an endorphin rush that you can both enjoy together, and best of all these types of environments have a vibe that encourages interesting conversation.

2. Ice Cream – Similar to the coffee shop in that it’s low investment and yields delicious treats.  Great way to enjoy the weather while learning about someone new. You can test with ice cream to see if she’s ready to kiss you , “Want some? its wicked good!” If she does eat off your spoon, she also feels comfortable enough to kiss you.

3. Park – Lowest investment of all, all you have to pay for is your gas to get there. Its very natural to hold hands while walking in a park, so don’t hesitate to grab her hand to start physical contact early on.

4. Mall - Great for craptacular weather and allows you to walk and look at different things to keep the conversation rolling.

This should go without saying, but be a gentleman and pay for both your treat and hers. We’re keeping the first dates cheap, you can afford $10.

-Gary

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