Whenever you’re starting any kind of interaction, you want to start touching her as soon as possible, but the classroom setting makes it kind of tricky. Once you have established some rapport, you can start flirting by nudging her in class, brushing something out of her hair, and lightly bumping her leg.

All of these flirting methods, sans the nudging, are suggestive so go easy with her before you start testing them.  It’s a lot easier when she’s out of the classroom.  This should be your main goal when you have your sights set on a hot girl in class that you want to meet in college.

If she does agree to meet you outside of class, that is of course an opportune time to get her number. It is natural to ask for it, because you may need to let her know if the plans change.

There is a certain professionalism that is generally expected in the college classroom. Once you have the girl out of the college class setting, you can immediately be extra friendly without it being too awkward.

When you meet her for coffee, go for a hug as soon as you meet her. Be bold and act like hugging people is natural for you. You should always hug women that you know if you’re not doing this already. When you see her, just say something like, “Hey!” excitedly, and give her a hug as soon as you see her.

It will make your life a lot easier if you do hug her, however there may be a reason you won’t be able too. If you can’t get that type of touching going right away, your job is going to be much, much more difficult.

If you’re with other women from class, they will be much more open to a hug, so give them hugs first, and then just naturally turn to her.

Another thing to keep in mind:

If there are multiple people when you meet (there is a high likelihood this is going to be the only way you will be able to get her to come meet you outside of class) be nice to them all, and flirt with them all a fair amount.   Be the fun loving guy everyone wants to be around.

You never want to focus on your target first. In fact, it is often better to flirt with the target a little bit less than the rest of the people to begin with. This way she will subconsciously feel that she needs to prove herself to you.

As soon as she takes an interest in the group, specifically if it plays to a conversation or question that you started, show a little bit of approval or interest, and slowly give her more attention. Don’t forget to be touchy and friendly with everyone, obviously much more so with her.

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Sexting has swept through the media like a whirlwind within the past couple years. Sexting is similar to phone sex, except you’re sending text messages and/or photos of your body or body parts.  It takes a bit of skill, just like successfully flirting with a girl to land her digits.

The main purpose of sexting is to get each other horny as shit so that next time you meet you’re ready to jump each other’s bones.  It’s fun, harmless (mostly), and is a great way to add some extra sex in a relationship.
Sexting is a fantastic way to build that anticipation that girls LOVE!

Sexting is a great way to flirt with a girl while you’re out and you don’t anyone else to know what you’re doing or you don’t want her to know you messed up you are when you’re out with your buddies.

If you want to give sexting a rip, follow the instructions below.

1.Make damn sure you have unlimited texting in your phone plan, you wouldn’t want a good sexting session to be ruined by an ugly phone bill at the end of the month.

2. Text the girl you want to flirt with a suggestive one liner. Make sure it’s not crude, leaves room for a retort from her, and definitely has sexual undertones.

What’s not going to cut it: “hey sexy”, “wats up”, “lets hav sex kthx”, “r u horny?”
What you should say: “you, me, wine, my place at 7?”, “thinking of your hot ass”, “dying to lick you”
3. When she responds (hopefully in a way that allows for some return fodder) continue with the text volleys while revving up the sexual tension.

4. If you choose to send a photo make sure it doesn’t have a picture of your face, god forbid things go south and you end up on the internet, at least there is no clear way to identify you.

5. If you do a decent job, things should go well the next time you meet, ideally that night if you planned things right.

-Gary

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When you’re planning to flirt with women, it makes it a heck of a lot easier if you’re in a state where you feel good and like you’re having a fun time. Go workout or do something to relieve stress if need be.  Don’t even bother if you’re strung out or not currently happy.

Confidence and plain ole being in a good mood is a big piece when it comes to effective flirting.

Humor is the bedrock of flirting. Without injected humor your flirting attempts may come out awkward.  It’s good to learn a few funny one liners that you can adapt to many situations.

Examples

• You: “If I pick this up, can I trust you not to stare my ass?” Then bend over and over and really stick your ass out.
• Girl: “Want to play me in this?” You: “You couldn’t handle it”
• You: “I normally charge people to sit this close to me”

When a conversation is going great that is the time to end it. You always want to leave a woman on a high note and end it on your terms.  You should always be the one to end the conversations.

When you end a conversation on high note you leave her wanting more.  It will also make her think about you more when you’re not together.  This is also a good way to end a conversation and get a number before heading off.

-Gary

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Women love to be teased, even if they tell you otherwise or act like they don’t like it. This is they’re way of actually telling you they do in fact like it (as long as their smiling or laughing while saying this of course). Teasing is a quick and easy way to break down her natural defenses and quickly build rapport. To do this you basically make fun of her the same way you would do when you’re a little kid.  You’re not being mean, but just having fun with her.

One of the most effective ways to tease and build attraction is to alternate between hot and cold. Tell a girl you’re out with that you’re glad we’re friends, while you lead her by the hand to the next room or wrap your arms around her. Lay on the teasing, flirting, and touching for a few minutes then don’t touch her again for the next hour or two. If you’ve done this right she will be touching you long before then.

The reason this works is that when you’re doing this you are sending mixed signals. She’s not exactly sure what’s going on but finds you interesting because you’re not all over her like most guys would be if given the opportunity. The more attractive the woman, the more you need to tease her so she sees you as commanding more social value. Then she will have to validate her social value to you and will naturally find you more attractive.

Whenever you’re approaching women or prepared to meet women you have to get yourself into a teasing and playing mode. A good idea is to create 3-4 canned lines will work in most scenarios. This way you’ll always have something at the tip of your tongue so you don’t sit there with your jaw agape after saying “hi” to that hottie in the elevator.

Get some canned lines created, start testing them out and use what works and toss what doesn’t.

Teasing Delivery Tips

Make sure if it’s something that could potentially be taken seriously or perceived as insulting you are smiling, other ways it may not come out they way want it too.  If it’s something really goofy it can be a lot funnier, especially to someone who doesn’t know you from a hole in the wall if you say it with a very serious face.

-Gary

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Women love texting and in most cases, do it a hell of a lot more than guys.  It’s another great tool you can use to take your time formulate a flirty text conversation.  Texting should always be fun, to the point, and never serious.  These messages assume that you obviously already have a phone number.

Here are two easy ways to start a flirty text conversation.

In *most* cases she will reply back with some flirtatious banter.  If she doesn’t “get” that the message is humorous and fun, and is rather offended by it, she’s probably not a girl you want to hang out with anyway. This type of flirting is actually a really good filtering tool that you can use to quickly weed through girls who are worth your time and energy as they are intelligent and socially aware enough to understand teasing and playing.

Example #1

• You: “Hey I saw a show and it reminded me of you.”  - If she’s fun and interested in you than you should get a response similar to this:
• Her: “Oh Yeah?”
• You: “Yeah, there was this girl with a massive handbag so big you could easily stuff a midget in it, reminded me of the one you have”

Example #2

• You: “Hey, I’m willing to take you out again, but only if you promise not to spill your water all over the table this time…can you handle that??”
• Her: “Ha, ha. I think I can try”
• You: “I know no one’s perfect, but you’re gonna have to try to eat spill free this time or else you owe me” - This is a fun way to challenge and tease her – women love this stuff
• Her: “Ha, ha. what would I owe you?” – When she starts asking questions its an indicator of interest.  You’re not obligated to immediately answer, it’s good to leave her hanging for a bit to stir the curiosity pot.
• You: “Well, you’re going to have to wait to find out 6:30 Wed. sound good?” Boom, you’ve asked her out in a fun way and dialed up the attraction dial.

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A lot of people aren’t exactly sure how text messages can be used as an attraction tool, so I outlined some of my favorite ways of using text messages to flirt.

• If you have been living in a cave and don’t already know all the netspeak such as omg, lol, cul8r, <3 etc,  check out netlingo.com and learn the common sayings.

• Tease heavily and use it as a tool to build up sexual tension. If you’re already dating someone, you can send her a text message in the morning about what you you’re going to do to her when she gets home. That way, she will be thinking about you all day and will probably want to jump your bones by the time you walk in the door.  By sending the first message in the morning, you create anticipation for the good times to come.

• This is one of the few times I would advocate using smiley faces because tone is lost in text messages. Use the wink face ; ) when you are saying something that could be taken as mean to show that you are saying it in a playful manner. Don’t overuse text faces however, you don’t want every message you send to have a wink or a smile face   Use them sparingly and only when necessary.

• If the textversation (made up a new word!) goes dry — let it. Don’t always be the one trying to keep the conversation going.  A magical thing happens you stop trying so hard to keep a woman’s attention. In most cases, if you’ve done things right and she is attracted to you, your phone should have a new text on it within the day or next day.

• Make sure the way you flirt through text messages is also the way you flirt in person. Consistency is key.

• If she doesn’t respond immediately to a question don’t nag and bug for an answer. It’s just plain annoying.  If you need an answer to a question that bad call. She could be busy and you don’t want to appear clingy.

• Don’t always respond to messages immediately either. Keep her waiting a bit sometimes, even if you’re not busy. It will help keep her interested if you’re not always instantly available.

-Gary

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