Here are some common things women have told me they dread and can’t stand when guys say them, enjoy.

1. On The First Bunch Of Dates: “We this..” “We that…” “We should..”

When you start saying things like “Oh, we should go to that sushi place….” or “I’ll take you out on my boat next time” or “We’ll definitely do that!” on the first or second date it reveals that you are very into her, she has you by the cajones and the fun is over. Don’t let her know she has won you over so easily. You don’t want to be that jackass who says he would love to put a ring on her finger after the first date.

2.  “How many guys have you had sex with?”

If you want to start a budding relationship off with oodles of tension, this is how you do it. I mean, honestly do you really want to know? You’re with her and that’s all that matters. It shows a big lack of confidence by having to ask this question in the early stages.

3. “I left you a message but you didn’t call me..whats up with that?”

Never let a woman know in the early stages of dating that her not calling you back bothers you. If you do, it shows again, you are way too into her too early and the game is over. Be busy, don’t give a crap if she doesn’t call you back, don’t give it any thought and most important don’t speak about it. The rules of course change when it comes to longer lasting relationships.

4. “So….Do you like me?”

If you want crank her attraction dial down into the negatives this is the question to ask. Of course she likes you, she’s with you isn’t she?

5. “What do you want to do?”

Be a leader, have a plan, and take charge. It’s very important in the early stages that you show that you in fact know how to be a man.

6. “Is it ok if I kiss you?”

No talking – just do it.

-Gary

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Nice – you did a decent job breaking the ice and scored a date. Now it’s time to make a great first impression. The time before you go out can be a bit nerve wracking, so here are some ways to calm the nerves and make you feel more confident.

1. Workout about 3-4 hours before you planned to meet. Make sure its a challenging workout. This will level you out and curb anxiety.

2. Pick up a gossip magazine like People and browse through it for about 10 – 15 minutes so you at least have a clue about the stuff women love to read and talk about. You’ll learn who’s cheating on who in hollywood, etc.  This will give you something to connect with almost any woman.

3. Plan so that you are on time. If you’re running late send a text.  It’s not cool to be “casually late” on a first date.

4. Take a relaxing shower, brush and floss your teeth, etc. Make sure you have clean nails and ears. Women notice the little details.

5. Stay positive and remind yourself that you are both going out to have a good time. Remember to make sure you smile when you first meet.

6. Bring a condom. If a woman is willing to have sex with you on the first date… not exactly long term relationship material and an ever BETTER reason to bring a condom. Better to be safe than having to get tested for STDs the next day.

-Gary

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