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15 Signs You Are A Tool

February 23, 2010
15 signs you are a tool

15 signs you are a tool

Hi guys, I have been very busy for the past month or so, I bought my first house so needless to say time has been tight, but I’m back at it! Here we go!

1. You can’t maintain or hold eye contact for longer than a second or two.  Don’t use fleeting glances.  Summon up some courage and look women directly in the eyes when you speak with them.  You’ll find yourself making better connections with people when you do this.

2. You carry yourself with a submissive or awkward posture making you look like a huge tool.  Don’t forget – always walk with your shoulders back, chest up, and eyes forward.

3. You give away all your power.  What does this mean?  This means that you avoid taking control of situations and doing what you want.  It means not always being agreeable if you don’t approve or want to do something.  It means constantly seeking approval and doing what you hope she thinks is acceptable.

4.  A BIG sign you are a tool is you always nervously fidget with something, whether it be your hands, a marker, a pencil whatever.  Practice the discipline of simply holding your arms at your sides or whatever place you find comfortable.

5. You always try to follow the crowd and do what everyone else is doing because you’re afraid people may think ill of you.  If you want to drive a volvo, do it! If you want to get a tattoo, do it! Don’t worry about other people think.

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Turn Off Women Instantly

January 4, 2010

Turn Off Women Instantly

Ever meet a woman, who at first you think is just another pretty face, but the more you get to know her and the more time you spend with her the more that initial attraction quickly grew into an intense affection as you became friends?

Then as you find yourself spending even more time with her, you started to become more and more insecure? Sound familiar?

We’ve all been there. You are not alone.

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Why You Should Avoid Being A “Nice Guy”

August 30, 2009

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What they say is true, nice guys always finish last.  The cocky, humorous, jackass will of course never have a problem with picking up women.  Why is this true?

Here are three ways being a “nice guy” will kill your chances of attracting women.

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Why Shy Guys Can’t Get Girls

August 27, 2009

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Dating and meeting women for shy men can be quite a harrowing experience.  You may feel like you will never find a date while your friends whip through girlfriend after girlfriend.

Shy guys tend to enjoy explaining to everyone how amazingly nice they really are and how well they would care for a girl if they had one.  In the game of dating, overly nice guys usually finish dead last.

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How To Not Be Socially Awkward

August 2, 2009

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If you often have trouble creating close and meaningful relationships with friends or girls you meet, you may be doing some things that make you appear socially awkward. Here are some ways to not be socially awkward.

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How To Dismantle Approach Anxiety

July 24, 2009

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When most guys think about approaching a woman they tend to make nervous movements, speak rapidly, freeze up, or explode into a pile of nerves leading to rejection.  Usually, the hotter the girl the higher the nervous factor. There are a few simple and easy ways to dismantle your approach anxiety.

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Don’t Date Your Friends

June 19, 2009

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Asking out a good friend is not a good idea. It can be extremely awkward for the receiving party and possibly sabotage the existing relationship.

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How To Have Tact

May 29, 2009

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Tact is a skill that anyone can learn. It is the ability to be sensitive to the feelings and internal dialogue of other people. If you have it, it can give you a significant edge when it comes to meeting and attracting women. If you don’t, your relationships with everyone are probably more strained than they should be, or hardly exist at all.

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Chop Down The Pedastel

May 20, 2009

If you put a woman up on a pedestal and worship her like a deity it is a guaranteed recipe for failure. If she feels like she has overwhelming power over you in any interaction ranging from long term relationship to first time meeting she will conscious or unconsciously not respect you and worst of all…

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