What they say is true, nice guys always finish last.  The cocky, humorous, jackass will of course never have a problem with picking up women.  Why is this true?

Here are three ways being a “nice guy” will kill your chances of attracting women.

1. You appear boring. Nice guys are usually way too quiet, spineless, and flat out wimps.  They come across as weak and lacking confidence – this is doom when trying to attract women.  You may be the shoulder to cry on, but you will never get ass if you don’t change your ways.

2. You’re always available. Nice guys will do whatever it takes when you need it to make you happy at any whim.  Women are not attracted to things that are very available. Why do women love jewelry? Because it’s hard to acquire.  Think of yourself the same way.  Women are attracted to men who are not always readily available.

3. You’re awkward. Nice guys tend to not be described as “smooth talkers.”  They tend to be way too socially awkward for women to even be remotely interested in them.  They are very self-conscious, avoid risk taking, and play it way too safe for women to find attractive.

Stop being so nice, stop seeking female approval, stop being the shoulder to cry on.

-Gary

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1. Heed the advice of the people who really know style. Don’t let your style be influenced by your mom, dad, girl your dating, or wife unless they really know what they’re talking about.  Read the advice of the experts on web sites such as askmen.com, GQ,  mens fashion on about.com then pick and choose what you like so you own it.  The cool thing about doing this is that no matter what you choose, you can’t go wrong (in most cases see #2).

2. Make sure that the new clothes you buy (based on the looks you found in the above websites) that you feel comfortable wearing them and it will still suit your personality. Obviously, just because an anorexic model is wearing something doesn’t mean you should.  You wouldn’t want to look like this guy, common sense still has to apply here. Stick to the classics when in doubt.

3. Style is about more than what you wear. Put the same set of clothes on a guy who is in shape and the same set on a guy who has a rounded back, button busting gut, and a concave chest, no matter how you slice it the guy who is in shape will look better. Getting in shape = better looking clothing fit. Make it yours – roll up the sleeves, use a cool belt, un-do a few buttons, etc.

4. A big part of your style is how you handle yourself and your day to day attitude. It’s not just about your clothing. Do you bitch to your co-workers and friends all day about your personal life frustrations? Or, do you do your job or hang out, and have fun with it? Who do you think will appear as the cooler guy? The one who keeps his head…or the one who loses it every 30 minutes and acts like a little bitch?

5. Get a decent pair of shoes, it is often the first thing a woman looks at to figure out your financial status. Women pay attention to the details! This is the one part of your outfit you don’t want to be cheap with.

Action Plan: Go to linked sites, find one new trendy outfit, buy it, and make it yours.

-Gary

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