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She’s hot and before you know it you’re stuffing your hands into your pockets and just making weird movements while talking to a woman. You need to eliminate this and all forms of submissive body language to make yourself appear more confident and attractive.

When you see an extremely attractive woman, you want to meet her, yet you have anxiety. You have conflictingly high levels of both fear and attraction, chances are you will approach with submissive body language and shrink your chances of succes.

You may avoid eye contact. You only look when you know the other person is looking at something else, rather than holding eye contact.

You look down. You avoid conflict by averting your eyes, rather than looking the person you are speaking with directly in the eyes.

You adopt a submissive posture. You make yourself smaller and take up less space, rather than spreading out and making yourself comfortable.

You speak with a soft voice, rather than a strong deep voice.

You follow, rather than lead mentally and logistically.

Start consciously working on reducing these types of gestures in every situation, not just when you’re talking to women. You will find that when you change the state of your body it will change the state of your mind. Walk tall, shoulders back, chin up, look people directly in the eye, hands at your sides, move slowly and take up space. Give it a rip, and let me know how it goes in the comments below.

-Gary

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