When you’re planning to flirt with women, it makes it a heck of a lot easier if you’re in a state where you feel good and like you’re having a fun time. Go workout or do something to relieve stress if need be. Don’t even bother if you’re strung out or not currently happy.
Confidence and plain ole being in a good mood is a big piece when it comes to effective flirting.
Humor is the bedrock of flirting. Without injected humor your flirting attempts may come out awkward. It’s good to learn a few funny one liners that you can adapt to many situations.
Examples
- You: “If I pick this up, can I trust you not to stare my ass?” Then bend over and over and really stick your ass out.
- Girl: “Want to play me in this?” You: “You couldn’t handle it”
- You: “I normally charge people to sit this close to me”
When a conversation is going great that is the time to end it. You always want to leave a woman on a high note and end it on your terms. You should always be the one to end the conversations.
When you end a conversation on high note you leave her wanting more. It will also make her think about you more when you’re not together. This is also a good way to end a conversation and get a number before heading off.
-Gary
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Jo Brown
753 days ago
Enjoyed this site – will check back soon!
Ladies Man
724 days ago
Man I wish my blog was as well written as yours!
great work! I guess I am still learning and started on a tough topic, dating tips!
Janiece Goebel
698 days ago
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Mature dating
697 days ago
I think being funny is a plus during a dating, but you have to be careful, many women consider the funny guy unstable.
Gary
696 days ago
Interesting you say that…why unstable? I’ve always perceived someone with a sense of humor as confident and intelligent
Matt
588 days ago
Humor is definitely a key ingredient in flirting. If you can make a woman laugh a bit, that makes her relaxed. When she’s relaxed, she’s more open and playful, too.
Also, because it’s all humorous and light, you can step back easily as well. You have an “out”, as they say. And so does she.
That’s a much better situation to be in than one where there is pressure and anxiety.
Anonymous
509 days ago
Interesting new post. Even better than your previous ones IMHO
darrell_fitzgerald
215 days ago
There are some tips to remember however once you get a conversation going such as honestly listening using your surroundings to talk about interesting enough relevant topics being natural and making a great lasting impression leaving more to be desired.When talking to a girl remember that a conversation also involves listening. Make sure you are honestly listening and not just thinking about the next topic.Picking up on the hints of what a woman talks about is going to help keep her interested in the conversation. A girl can tell if you are listening to her or not and it is a big turn off if she gets the vibe that you aren t truly listening to what she has to say. Make sure you seem interested in what she has to say and the best way to do that is to give great eye contact and to have a nice relevant comment after she speaks! Be a good listener but at the same time dont be like shes talking to a tree. One thing to remember is that you don t have to have the most enthralling topic to talk about in order to approach a girl. Use the surroundings around you to pick a topic. If you are the library talk about what book you were inspired to read and how you got inspired to read that book. That right there is an interesting enough topic to talk about. You don t have to be the most interesting man in the world just someone who is willingly going to listen to what she has to say and have comments to respond back. You don t have to start the conversation with a bang any relevant topic is going to work well. When knowing how to talk to girls things are just going to come naturally.