How To Flirt Using Text Messages
July 12, 2009
A lot of people aren’t exactly sure how text messages can be used as an attraction tool, so I outlined some of my favorite ways of using text messages to flirt.
- If you have been living in a cave and don’t already know all the netspeak such as omg, lol, cul8r, <3 etc, check out netlingo.com and learn the common sayings.
- Tease heavily and use it as a tool to build up sexual tension. If you’re already dating someone, you can send her a text message in the morning about what you you’re going to do to her when she gets home. That way, she will be thinking about you all day and will probably want to jump your bones by the time you walk in the door. By sending the first message in the morning, you create anticipation for the good times to come.
- This is one of the few times I would advocate using smiley faces because tone is lost in text messages. Use the wink face ; ) when you are saying something that could be taken as mean to show that you are saying it in a playful manner. Don’t overuse text faces however, you don’t want every message you send to have a wink or a smile face
Use them sparingly and only when necessary.
- If the textversation (made up a new word!) goes dry — let it. Don’t always be the one trying to keep the conversation going. A magical thing happens you stop trying so hard to keep a woman’s attention. In most cases, if you’ve done things right and she is attracted to you, your phone should have a new text on it within the day or next day.
- Make sure the way you flirt through text messages is also the way you flirt in person. Consistency is key.
- If she doesn’t respond immediately to a question don’t nag and bug for an answer. It’s just plain annoying. If you need an answer to a question that bad call. She could be busy and you don’t want to appear clingy.
- Don’t always respond to messages immediately either. Keep her waiting a bit sometimes, even if you’re not busy. It will help keep her interested if you’re not always instantly available.
-Gary
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Greatings, Ugh, I liked! So clear and positively.
Joker
Great tips. I would also suggest that you don’t say anything you wouldn’t say in person. I think the most effective way to flirt via text is the first point mentioned — to build sexual tension for a later encounter. Remember, foreplay can really begin hours before you actually hook up!
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