How To Get Phone Numbers In Coffee Shops

As you’re waiting in line at the local Starbucks, a super hot woman woman walks in. The first thing you do not want to do is look her up and down like wolf who just found fresh meat. Get your milk and artificial sweetener and plan your attack.

There are a few nice things about coffee shops.

No shortage of women going in and out
If it’s a local artsy type of place, you will probably be pre-filtering party girls if that’s not what you’re looking for
You already have something in common – good coffee

keep in mind your main objective with approaching is always getting either a phone number or email. The “close” is getting the number or email address, don’t worry about getting any further at this point when you’re doing approaches.

It can be a bit intimidating to approach a woman with a crowd of people around. But, who says you have to ask for her number right there, with your caffeinated spectators? You don’t, wait until your outside to ask for her number, but start flirting inside. Make asking her for her number almost as an after thought, like “hm, maybe I’ll see what she’s up too tonight.” Make sure you don’t come from a place of neediness.

To approach her without it being awkward, she has to be in some proximity to you. Listen to what she orders. Say “Hmm that sounds good! I might try that… If it sucks, you better give me a refund” then wink and smile.

If she’s really lean, and she orders a frou-frou drink without whip cream and with skim milk, you could bust out the Napolean Dynamite line “I see you’re drinking 1%. Is that ’cause you think you’re fat? ‘Cause you’re not. You could be drinking whole if you wanted to.”

Or, while “deciding what you want” let her get in front of you, then say a couple minutes later “ok, well I know what I want now, I’ll have blah blah …oh yeah and tell him no sugar, since you cut me..you owe me BIG TIME”

Don’t frequent the same coffee shop too often to pick up women or you’ll become that guy that the store employees and legit customers can’t stand but can’t find a way to get rid of.

Keep it fun and always think of approaching women as just having fun and trying to have a good time with people around you, not like you are trying to get something out of her.

Implement and practice!

-Gary

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