Online Dating Email Message Tips

 

  1. Spell check is your friend
  2. Don’t get too personal with the first email. Keep it light and fun.
  3. Don’t ask lame questions like “Can I be your knight in shining armor?, Am I the one for you?”
  4. Make sure you personalize your emails – the shotgun principle ( send out the same email to every profile you see ) doesn’t work here and will get your message dropped in the trash.
  5. Copy the energy level of her profile. If she appears to be the leveled and chilled out type make sure your email mirrors the same energy. If she seems outgoing and adventurous, write your email with some injected excitement.
  6. This is a good rapport progression for meeting someone from an online dating website without seeming too creepy:
  • Back and forth communication with three email messages
  • Instant Messaging
  • Phone
  • Then meet. Before meeting make sure you have both exchanged recent photos of each other holding a newspaper. That way you’ll know the hot 105lb woman you see in the profile is not not 300lb.

-Gary

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