Why Shy Guys Can’t Get Girls

Dating and meeting women for shy men can be quite a harrowing experience. You may feel like you will never find a date while your friends whip through girlfriend after girlfriend.

Shy guys tend to enjoy explaining to everyone how amazingly nice they really are and how well they would care for a girl if they had one. In the game of dating, overly nice guys usually finish dead last.

First of all stop saying that you’re shy and nice all the time. It makes you look like a wimp. Women aren’t going to wait for you to stop being shy and make the first move, from approaching to the first kiss. If you can’t get over your shyness you may never get a long term girlfriend.

Being shy and un-assertive also makes you appear more feminine and less masculine – not good. It’s generally acceptable for a woman to get away with being shy, but it unfortunately doesn’t work for guys when it comes to attracting high quality women. If she can feel like she can walk all over you there will be no attraction.

No one is going to do the approaching women, talking to women, and making first moves for you. You’re going to have to crack the shell man. It makes you look weak. To attract women, you need to appear dominant and strong. Not just physically, I mean mentally, socially, and emotionally. A woman needs to know she can count on you and a shy guy doesn’t project that.

-Gary

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