Ever meet a woman, who at first you think is just another pretty face, but the more you get to know her and the more time you spend with her the more that initial attraction quickly grew into an intense affection as you became friends?
Then as you find yourself spending even more time with her, you started to become more and more insecure? Sound familiar?
We’ve all been there. You are not alone.
You were just dying to know if she felt the same way about you as you did about her – yet you were still clearly in the dreaded friend zone.
At times you may have tried to illicit a reaction out of her when you told her how important she was to you to no avail.
She would occasionally give you hug or hold your hand, but not in the way you want her too. She was still at the end of the day – your friend.
The more insecure you felt about your feelings, the more scared you became of making a move on her and potentially messing up the friendship. Then you realized the only way she would ever know your “true” feelings was to sit her down and tell her.
Then shortly after telling her you got the inevitable rejection. “Thanks, that was really sweet…but I wouldn’t want to mess up our great friendship, I have to get going…I’ll talk to you later” This type of feeling dump is an instant turn off with most women!
Maybe she was just afraid of sharing her true feelings as well? The thought “Maybe I wasn’t clear enough runs through your head?”
You had to be with her. To make sure she really understood your feelings you painstakingly wrote her a poem really digging deep and pulling out all your feelings for her unfiltered.
Then shockingly she starts to avoid you and doesn’t return your calls or texts. If you’re lucky, after a few weeks or a month she may have tried to reconnect your friendship if you can get over her.
Knowledge is power. If you knew what I’ve been teaching you already, you never would have gone about turning your friend into a partner in such a pussy way, not to mention sabotage a great friendship.
If a woman isn’t already attracted to you, any traditional courting efforts (flowers, poems, expensive dinners, etc) will only PUSH her further from you.
Doing “nice guy” stuff for a woman that isn’t attracted to you only makes the situation worse. I know it sucks, but there is a right and a wrong way of attracting woman you’re interested in. This story is how you turn off women instantly. Keep the feelings to yourself or don’t let it get to that point! Make a move early on and stay out of the friend zone entirely.
How To Not Turn Off Women Instantly
• Keep things light
• No flowers
• No chocolates
• No poems
• No love songs
• No “we need to talk” type conversations
• Don’t call or text her 7 times a day
• Don’t ask if she likes you
Learn how to make her attracted to you from the beginning. Learn how to read her positive signals. Learn to read her body language. Learn how to communicate with women on a level that shows you “get it.” Stay tuned and I will teach you.
-Gary
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Kate
760 days ago
I never thought blokes thought about this kind of stuff so much. I’m going to follow you for some insights into the mysterious mind of the menfolk…. Could come in handy…
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Carter
692 days ago
The only time I can recall -ever- tapping a woman for a ‘we need to talk’ conversation, I did so by saying at the outset “I am not bringing this up to confess anything to you, or pressure you. I’m only asking you listen because I need to know I can actually talk about this kind of thing with a beautiful, intelligent woman.”
Overall, it went well… I think the disclaimer made the difference.