The majority of all communication is not through spoken word. It’s from body language. Understanding a woman’s body language will quickly let you know whether or not she’s interested in you.
It shouldn’t take you more than five minutes to figure out whether or not you’re interested in a woman. You have to realize that you are in the same attraction process and time frame as women, when it comes to figuring out if attraction is there or not. Women follow the same attraction factors as we do.
Ok, so verbal communication isn’t as important as body language, but it is still important not to babble on about your pet gerbils for ten minutes. The content of your conversation should grow more pertinent as time goes on, so you should try to keep it interesting from the start.
Make sure your body language also reflects interest. Keep an optimistic and confident posture. Make sure that you position yourself for easy eye contact with your feet facing in her direction. Make sure it’s quite clear you’re interested in more than just finding out what time it is.
Watch how her eyes move. If her eyes move from yours, to your mouth back to your eyes back to your mouth, or your body she’s interested! Avoid compulsive behaviors, lean back, relax and keep your cool.
If her eyes stay firmly focused on yours without ever straying past the nose line – bad news, she’s probably not interested.
Here are a few gestures that will help you understand a woman’s body language
- Mirroring – If she copies or mirrors your body language then she is flirting with you. This can happen consciously (if she knows it’s a way to flirt) or subconsciously. Next time your out observe how couples often mirror each other’s body language. If you know a girl is interested in you test it out on her. Lean forward a little bit (or back) and watch if she does the same. Once you know what’s going on its fun to see it in action – really cool.
- Strong Eye Contact – A big part of flirting is using eye contact. If she holds eye contact with you for more than a few seconds at a time then it’s very likely that she’s interested.
- The Eyebrow Pop – It happens fast. When you approach a woman watch her eyebrows. If they give a lift as you approach and fall then that is a great signal that she is interested.
Never single out just one body language gesture to determine if a woman is interested in you. You have to look at the position and actions of the body as a whole. If her arms are crossed and she has a snarl on her face, but she is holding strong eye contact it’s probably more likely she wants to kill you than have sex with you. Use common sense when interpreting body language signals too.
-Gary
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This is gold…I’ll let you know how I get on with this info.
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HA. so tell me what do girls do when they’re NOT interested? because isn’t eye contact while someone is speaking a common courtesy?!? altho, i tend to have issues while walking…my eyes are often glued to the floor. i chalk it up to pledging for a sorority back in college and having to walk across the campus quad to formally greet them “hello” with a kiss on the the cheek if i saw any big sister in public. huge pain in the ass.
Hey bread liking girl!
Here are some *typical* signs that a woman will show when she’s not interested in a guy
1. she won’t express interest in your life or ask you any questions
2. she will avoid eye contact and look at everything but you – not all woman hold eye contact as a courtesy gesture
3. she will avoid spending time alone with you
4. she will try to keep a lot of space between you and her and possibly will point her body away from you
5. will be reluctant to talk about setting up a date or another date
6. she wont return your phone calls or pick up when you call
7. she will end the date early – possibly with a lame excuse like she is feeling tired
8. in conversation she will give one word answers and avoid meaningful conversation with you
make sense? what do you think?